My wife and I are going through Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University class right now through our church small group. We're just a few weeks in, but it has been very good for us so far.
I noticed during the 'Buyer Beware' lesson video (week 5 I think), Dave pulled his calculator off the lectern in order to calculate what some investment of your daily coffee money or something would pay off in 79 years of earning 12% interest. Whether or not his methods appeal to you, you have to love this about him: he uses a 12c. Of course, Dave was a real estate professional. The hp 12c was THE must have calculator for real estate folks.
I keep a 12c in my desk. I use it for balancing the checkbook, doing taxes, etc. It is the financial calculator for me.
I'm jazzed now that I know Dave is an hp guy. I did notice, though, that in spite of having multiple billions of dollars of coffee money he has stored away in mutual funds, he's still using his old gold 12c and not a new 12c platinum. Calculate like no one else so you can calculate like no one else.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Monday, October 5, 2009
calculator apps for your computer
I told you a couple of post backs about the hp apps for iPhone and iPod Touch. They are also selling apps for your computer (Windows).
You can get the 35s (my favorite of the current scientifics) or your choice of one of these three financials: 20b, 12c or 12c Platinum.
If you're a PC and an hp, you'll want all 4 of these. Check 'em out here.
You can get the 35s (my favorite of the current scientifics) or your choice of one of these three financials: 20b, 12c or 12c Platinum.
If you're a PC and an hp, you'll want all 4 of these. Check 'em out here.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
made the right choice
As my undergraduate education was coming to a close, I decided to pursue a master's degree in mathematics on a teaching assistantship. After interviewing and applying with a few schools, I received offers from two universities.
Texas A&M offered me a pretty good offer. The University of Arkansas made an offer that was almost as good as that. The third school I was most interested in (Rice) did not make me an offer. So, basically, my choice came down to A&M or Arkansas. It was a very difficult choice.
Exacerbating the problem was the fact that my girlfriend would still be in school at Harding in Searcy, Ark. for one more year. At the time, Searcy was about 10 or 11 hours from College Station, TX and only about three hours from Fayetteville, Ark.
In my mind, the choice was 50/50. Pick one school much closer to my girlfriend or the other school with the better offer. I picked Arkansas. This led to weekend trips between Searcy and Fayetteville, a fall engagement, a May wedding, 20 years (and still counting) of marriage to my girlfriend and one beautiful daughter.
This weekend as Texas A&M and Arkansas (6:30 Saturday on ESPN2) renew their rivalry for the first time since their Southwest Conference days, GO HOGS!
Texas A&M offered me a pretty good offer. The University of Arkansas made an offer that was almost as good as that. The third school I was most interested in (Rice) did not make me an offer. So, basically, my choice came down to A&M or Arkansas. It was a very difficult choice.
Exacerbating the problem was the fact that my girlfriend would still be in school at Harding in Searcy, Ark. for one more year. At the time, Searcy was about 10 or 11 hours from College Station, TX and only about three hours from Fayetteville, Ark.
In my mind, the choice was 50/50. Pick one school much closer to my girlfriend or the other school with the better offer. I picked Arkansas. This led to weekend trips between Searcy and Fayetteville, a fall engagement, a May wedding, 20 years (and still counting) of marriage to my girlfriend and one beautiful daughter.
This weekend as Texas A&M and Arkansas (6:30 Saturday on ESPN2) renew their rivalry for the first time since their Southwest Conference days, GO HOGS!
Friday, September 25, 2009
aussome football
I was a freshman in college in 1984-5. That year was the year they installed cable TV in the dorms. The women's dorms, that is. We guys had to wait until the fall of 1985 to watch cable.
College guys and cable TV seemed like a perfect partnership in 1985. ESPN was relatively new and getting established. At that time, Australian rules football was a staple in ESPN's programming. In the guys' dorms, we watched a lot of Aussie rules. It was one of my favorite sports.
Still is. Thing is, we haven't much watched Aussie rules since then. Nope, ESPN has become the world leader in sports and some of the enjoyable programming they had in the early days had to go away to make room for American football and baseball and...
Tonight, ESPN Classic will broadcast the Aussie rules championship at 11:30 CDT. I'm really looking forward to it.
It's ironic that the sport that filled so many hours back in the "classic" days of ESPN will air live tonight on ESPN's Classic channel.
College guys and cable TV seemed like a perfect partnership in 1985. ESPN was relatively new and getting established. At that time, Australian rules football was a staple in ESPN's programming. In the guys' dorms, we watched a lot of Aussie rules. It was one of my favorite sports.
Still is. Thing is, we haven't much watched Aussie rules since then. Nope, ESPN has become the world leader in sports and some of the enjoyable programming they had in the early days had to go away to make room for American football and baseball and...
Tonight, ESPN Classic will broadcast the Aussie rules championship at 11:30 CDT. I'm really looking forward to it.
It's ironic that the sport that filled so many hours back in the "classic" days of ESPN will air live tonight on ESPN's Classic channel.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
hp calculators as iPhone and iTouch apps
Did you know that hp sells their calculators as apps?
I'm not an iAnything user, but if you are, you can get the 12c, 12c Platinum and the 15c (that's the one I'd want) for your iPhone.
Just search for hewlett packard in the app store.
Thank me later.
I'm not an iAnything user, but if you are, you can get the 12c, 12c Platinum and the 15c (that's the one I'd want) for your iPhone.
Just search for hewlett packard in the app store.
Thank me later.
Monday, September 14, 2009
phinedroids and ferbots
It's amazing how having a 6-year old in the house changes your entertainment options. DVR doesn't help. The Disney Channel doesn't help very much either. What I have noticed is that I now spend an inordinate amount of time watching Phineas and Ferb.
Three months ago, I'd never even heard of Phineas and Ferb. Two months from now, we'll probably be past it. But for the moment, we watch a lot of P&F.
Now, the question is, how can the 6-year old and I get her mother (mrs. kcrazorback) to stop making us watch that show so often? She's addicted.
Three months ago, I'd never even heard of Phineas and Ferb. Two months from now, we'll probably be past it. But for the moment, we watch a lot of P&F.
Now, the question is, how can the 6-year old and I get her mother (mrs. kcrazorback) to stop making us watch that show so often? She's addicted.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
eternally optimistic
Generally speaking, I'm an optimist. I believe that if the final out of the baseball game hasn't yet been made, my team can still win--even if they are down by a bunch of runs. I believe that if the team hasn't been eliminated from playoff contention yet, they still have a chance--like the Kansas City Royals, who are 23.5 games back in the AL Central right now.
As the inevitable fall approaches, however, optimism gives way to pragmatism. In fact, I become so pragmatic that each September (or even late August), I keep a spreadsheet that forecasts when my team will be eliminated from the playoffs that year. This year, the earliest possible date that the Royals can be eliminated from playoff contention is, drumroll(?), TODAY. In fact, if Detroit, Minnesota and Chicago all win their respective games, the Royals will be done. The most likely date of elimination is tomorrow (09/09/09). Regardless, my pragmatism forces me to accept the outcome and defeats my optimism today. Yes, you can say I was stupid for sticking with the team to the very end.
The worst part is now we have to start rooting for the Kansas City Chiefs. As baseball season turns into football season, my pragmatism becomes depression. I am already longing for baseball spring training when I can be optimistic again.
Wait a second, if Detroit can lose all of their remaining games except one to Minnesota and then Minnesota can lose all of their remaining games except five to Chicago and then Chicago loses all of their remaining games and, of course, Cleveland would have to lose almost all of their remaining games, the Royals could still win the division. Optimism springs eternal!!! (for a few hours)
As the inevitable fall approaches, however, optimism gives way to pragmatism. In fact, I become so pragmatic that each September (or even late August), I keep a spreadsheet that forecasts when my team will be eliminated from the playoffs that year. This year, the earliest possible date that the Royals can be eliminated from playoff contention is, drumroll(?), TODAY. In fact, if Detroit, Minnesota and Chicago all win their respective games, the Royals will be done. The most likely date of elimination is tomorrow (09/09/09). Regardless, my pragmatism forces me to accept the outcome and defeats my optimism today. Yes, you can say I was stupid for sticking with the team to the very end.
The worst part is now we have to start rooting for the Kansas City Chiefs. As baseball season turns into football season, my pragmatism becomes depression. I am already longing for baseball spring training when I can be optimistic again.
Wait a second, if Detroit can lose all of their remaining games except one to Minnesota and then Minnesota can lose all of their remaining games except five to Chicago and then Chicago loses all of their remaining games and, of course, Cleveland would have to lose almost all of their remaining games, the Royals could still win the division. Optimism springs eternal!!! (for a few hours)
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
needing mercy, showing mercy
I recently had an interesting conversation with someone from my church. Before I had said much more than "Hi," he put up a defensive wall. As I laid the foundation for what I would ask him, he argued with me. When I asked him for his help, he turned me down.
Near the beginning of that conversation, I found myself also defending my statements. But rather than continue to argue (my typical response), I picked up on the fact that something else was going on with this person and I changed my tactics to simply being nice and allowing for future conversations.
Something else was going on. I still don't know what. But I have realized that Mr. X does not oppose me or the work we are doing. Satan does oppose me and the work we're doing.
We must resist Satan with full force. We must also be gracious and show mercy to each other with full force. It's what Christ modeled for us (no one ever before of since or into eternity has or will show mercy with as much force as He did at the cross). It's what I need.
Near the beginning of that conversation, I found myself also defending my statements. But rather than continue to argue (my typical response), I picked up on the fact that something else was going on with this person and I changed my tactics to simply being nice and allowing for future conversations.
Something else was going on. I still don't know what. But I have realized that Mr. X does not oppose me or the work we are doing. Satan does oppose me and the work we're doing.
We must resist Satan with full force. We must also be gracious and show mercy to each other with full force. It's what Christ modeled for us (no one ever before of since or into eternity has or will show mercy with as much force as He did at the cross). It's what I need.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
first day of first grade
The start of school is a magical time.
Children, who have been conditioned for three months to do whatever they want to do, are being returned to a disciplined academic environment.
Kcrazorback daughter, who really loves school, is not happy about this at all. Her classmates are not happy about this at all. Her mother and I are thrilled.
This morning, as I dropped her off at school, we yelled at the poor kindergarten parents (they're the ones holding up the dropoff traffic) to get a move on, "turn your car already."
I've realized that the 1st graders have a BMOC factor. They were in the school last year for kindergarten. They know their way around. They know each other and the teachers (for the most part). They are bigger than a whole bunch of the new students in the school. They know what not to eat in the cafeteria. They're savvy. They're a little suprised by the lack of play centers in the classroom (compared to K-garten) but they know a boatload of potty jokes and can discuss what's going on with the big-kid Disney TV. They are in their element.
From the 1st day: "All we did was go over the rules and color some sheets." Yeah, somehow, I think you're holding something back from dear old dad. Perhaps, they know what not to tell Mom and Dad about as well.
Children, who have been conditioned for three months to do whatever they want to do, are being returned to a disciplined academic environment.
Kcrazorback daughter, who really loves school, is not happy about this at all. Her classmates are not happy about this at all. Her mother and I are thrilled.
This morning, as I dropped her off at school, we yelled at the poor kindergarten parents (they're the ones holding up the dropoff traffic) to get a move on, "turn your car already."
I've realized that the 1st graders have a BMOC factor. They were in the school last year for kindergarten. They know their way around. They know each other and the teachers (for the most part). They are bigger than a whole bunch of the new students in the school. They know what not to eat in the cafeteria. They're savvy. They're a little suprised by the lack of play centers in the classroom (compared to K-garten) but they know a boatload of potty jokes and can discuss what's going on with the big-kid Disney TV. They are in their element.
From the 1st day: "All we did was go over the rules and color some sheets." Yeah, somehow, I think you're holding something back from dear old dad. Perhaps, they know what not to tell Mom and Dad about as well.
Friday, July 31, 2009
still clunking--no cash
Mrs. kcrazorback drives a clunker. It would have been eligible for the $4,500 rebate. And it is not worth $4,500 on the market. But, alas, it's worth that much to us. We were seriously tempted, however, to trade that sucker in earlier this week.
We already had one economical non-clunker. But I like having one clunker, too. It's not "green" but it fits our lifestyle really well.
In the words of Lacie (a family friend and 5 year old), don't get all up in my business.
We already had one economical non-clunker. But I like having one clunker, too. It's not "green" but it fits our lifestyle really well.
In the words of Lacie (a family friend and 5 year old), don't get all up in my business.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
update on 10s
I told you in this earlier post about the new models I picked up over the holidays. Here's a quick update on the 10s.
The 10s was a low price (I paid $7.99) basic scientific that I was very excited about. I'm not so excited any more. In spite of the fact that it's only a few months old, many of the LCD segments don't work. I'm ready to dismantle/destroy this one. Unfortunately, sometimes you don't even get what you pay for when what you pay is not very much.
Upon further review, I guess I should stick with the more expensive calculators. Say no to the 10s.
I have no complaints about the 35s I got at the same time.
The 10s was a low price (I paid $7.99) basic scientific that I was very excited about. I'm not so excited any more. In spite of the fact that it's only a few months old, many of the LCD segments don't work. I'm ready to dismantle/destroy this one. Unfortunately, sometimes you don't even get what you pay for when what you pay is not very much.
Upon further review, I guess I should stick with the more expensive calculators. Say no to the 10s.
I have no complaints about the 35s I got at the same time.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
they make me feel young
As I've gotten older, I'm noticing it more. Example: my arm aches quite a bit of the time. In fact, I described it to my doctor as it felt like what I imagine it would feel like if I'd pitched a Major League Baseball game the day before.
Jamie Moyer did pitch a MLB game yesterday. In fact, he won. Something he's done ten times this season--and six of his last seven starts have been wins. Moyer has 92 wins since he turned 40. He is now 46.
Tim Wakefield is my age (well, 2 1/2 months younger--he's 42). He is 11-3 this year and was an American League All Star.
Way to go old guys.
Jamie Moyer did pitch a MLB game yesterday. In fact, he won. Something he's done ten times this season--and six of his last seven starts have been wins. Moyer has 92 wins since he turned 40. He is now 46.
Tim Wakefield is my age (well, 2 1/2 months younger--he's 42). He is 11-3 this year and was an American League All Star.
Way to go old guys.
Friday, June 19, 2009
layoffs hurt families, some advice for all of us
Praise God that I've survived several layoffs at my workplace. I'm not immune. But, my cubicle is now adjacent to others where good friends (co-workers) used to sit every day. Other friends from church or whereever have also lost their jobs.
The KC job market is slightly more resilient than other places in the country. So, some of those folks have gotten other jobs already. However, it is a struggle for most.
In the end, it seems that most all of my friends will be fine. However, their families are hurting. Also, the families of those who have not been laid off are hurting as well.
While not equating the difficulties associated with losing your job with the difficulties associated with remaining behind, I am saying their is a cost for all of us.
Our families struggle with the additional time that we're putting in at work now. They have emotional distress due to the fact that, potentially, it could happen to us as well. While that was always true, now it is in the forefront of our minds. They also struggle with a greatly increased difficulty in making day-to-day decisions about spending or summer camp tuition or...
What we have to remember: God reigns supreme. In times of plenty, God reigns supreme. In times of want, God reigns supreme. Trust Him.
It's not that God wants you to have hard times. No. God wants you--irrespective of whether times are hard or not. In prosperity, choose God. In hard times, choose God. Regardless, choose God.
The KC job market is slightly more resilient than other places in the country. So, some of those folks have gotten other jobs already. However, it is a struggle for most.
In the end, it seems that most all of my friends will be fine. However, their families are hurting. Also, the families of those who have not been laid off are hurting as well.
While not equating the difficulties associated with losing your job with the difficulties associated with remaining behind, I am saying their is a cost for all of us.
Our families struggle with the additional time that we're putting in at work now. They have emotional distress due to the fact that, potentially, it could happen to us as well. While that was always true, now it is in the forefront of our minds. They also struggle with a greatly increased difficulty in making day-to-day decisions about spending or summer camp tuition or...
What we have to remember: God reigns supreme. In times of plenty, God reigns supreme. In times of want, God reigns supreme. Trust Him.
Ecclesiastes 7:14 (New Living Translation)
14 Enjoy prosperity while you can, but when hard times strike, realize that both come from God. Remember that nothing is certain in this life.
It's not that God wants you to have hard times. No. God wants you--irrespective of whether times are hard or not. In prosperity, choose God. In hard times, choose God. Regardless, choose God.
Friday, June 12, 2009
back blogging again
I'd like to be the first to welcome me back. OK, so I'm going to resume blogging now. I'd like to ask both of you to forgive me--I kind of got too busy at work the last few months to blog frequently. Still busy, but I'll try to fit in blogging.
The College World Series starts tomorrow in Omaha, NE. The first game is at 1:00 CDT and features the University of Arkansas Razorbacks and the Cal St-Fullerton Titans.
Go HOGS! Bring home a championship.
I noticed the other day that the Kansas City Royals have drafted the Arkansas 2nd baseman and shortstop. Just a dream here, but if they can develop those guys together, who knows, sosmeday you may see an all Hog double play in The K.
Interesting note: The current major leaguer that is probably the best Hog in the bigs is Cleveland Indians pitcher and Cy Young award winner Cliff Lee.
OK, so, watch the CWS on ESPN. Root for the Hogs. Good things will happen. Now, how can I convince Susan to let me go to Omaha for a few days?
The College World Series starts tomorrow in Omaha, NE. The first game is at 1:00 CDT and features the University of Arkansas Razorbacks and the Cal St-Fullerton Titans.
Go HOGS! Bring home a championship.
I noticed the other day that the Kansas City Royals have drafted the Arkansas 2nd baseman and shortstop. Just a dream here, but if they can develop those guys together, who knows, sosmeday you may see an all Hog double play in The K.
Interesting note: The current major leaguer that is probably the best Hog in the bigs is Cleveland Indians pitcher and Cy Young award winner Cliff Lee.
OK, so, watch the CWS on ESPN. Root for the Hogs. Good things will happen. Now, how can I convince Susan to let me go to Omaha for a few days?
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
happy 20th anniversary to us
Today is our 20th wedding anniversary. Whether rich or poor, in sickness and health...blah blah blah blah, I will always know that I lucked out and married the best wife ever. She is the perfect complement to me. She is strong where I am weak. She makes me happy all day every day. I love her. Happy anniversary.
Friday, May 1, 2009
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
turn the tv back on, but why?
Sunday night at midnight passed. Kcrazorback daughter was fast asleep--having successfully not watched any TV, or played any video or computer games for an entire week. For this heroic accomplishment, she gets the latest Littlest Pet Shop stuff from mom and dad and a book and an IHOP gift certificate from the school.
Her dedication was incredible. It suprised even those of us who really believe in her and know best what she is capable of. She's a great kid.
Mrs. kcrazorback and I also enjoyed having the TV off every day (although we did sneak in some The Office after junior went to sleep at night).
I'd even say we're enjoying watching her watch the occasional program now that Turn Your TV Off Week is over--knowing that she's not really addicted to it.
Her dedication was incredible. It suprised even those of us who really believe in her and know best what she is capable of. She's a great kid.
Mrs. kcrazorback and I also enjoyed having the TV off every day (although we did sneak in some The Office after junior went to sleep at night).
I'd even say we're enjoying watching her watch the occasional program now that Turn Your TV Off Week is over--knowing that she's not really addicted to it.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
ode to no. 5
You already know that one of the best to ever play the game played in Kansas City and wore #5. But George Brett wasn't the only guy.
All 30 MLB teams have retired his #42. But when he played at the highest level in Kansas City, Jackie Robinson wore #5 for the Monarchs.
Today is Jackie Robinson day--players throughout MLB will wear #42 in games today. To educate yourself about the Negro Leagues, start here. The Negro Leagues Baseball Museum is a local and national treasure.
Never segregate to play.
All 30 MLB teams have retired his #42. But when he played at the highest level in Kansas City, Jackie Robinson wore #5 for the Monarchs.
Today is Jackie Robinson day--players throughout MLB will wear #42 in games today. To educate yourself about the Negro Leagues, start here. The Negro Leagues Baseball Museum is a local and national treasure.
Never segregate to play.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
march for babies
Please consider giving to the March of Dimes.
OK, now that you've considered it, go ahead and give.
You can give here.
OK, now that you've considered it, go ahead and give.
You can give here.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
happy st. patrick's day
Top o' the mornin' to ya. HAPPY ST. PATTY'S!
I'll take a short break from the wedding stories to wish you a happy St. Patrick's day.
To my siblings and their families: did you know that we are Irish? We really are. At least I think we are. I know that my brother and I both remember "Granny Fanny" (I remember her quite fondly) who died when we were about four years old. She was our great-grandmother--our paternal grandmother's mother. She was born Rebecca Frances McClennahan, daughter of Bevely Harrison McClennahan who was the son of Beverly McClennahan.
I believe that McClennahan is more commonly spelled McClenahan and is the Irish derivative of the Scottish McClanahan. The extra n may have been an Americanization.
Clearly, I know little about genealogy except that I'm Irish. I think I'll head to the pub for a Guinness. Oh, it's almost 10:00 AM. I'm late.
I'll take a short break from the wedding stories to wish you a happy St. Patrick's day.
To my siblings and their families: did you know that we are Irish? We really are. At least I think we are. I know that my brother and I both remember "Granny Fanny" (I remember her quite fondly) who died when we were about four years old. She was our great-grandmother--our paternal grandmother's mother. She was born Rebecca Frances McClennahan, daughter of Bevely Harrison McClennahan who was the son of Beverly McClennahan.
I believe that McClennahan is more commonly spelled McClenahan and is the Irish derivative of the Scottish McClanahan. The extra n may have been an Americanization.
Clearly, I know little about genealogy except that I'm Irish. I think I'll head to the pub for a Guinness. Oh, it's almost 10:00 AM. I'm late.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
listening, number 2
I told you in an earlier post about my listening skills and how they've been developed over the years out of necessity. I didn't start so attentive, though.
In fact, when the future Mrs. kcrazorback and I were dating, we were at a Christian college with an 11 PM curfew in the dorms. So, she'd frequently call me after 11. Then she'd start talking.
After handset-to-ear fatigue became just too unbearable, I would pass the phone off to my roommate Dan. The two of them would have many long (mostly) one-sided conversations late at night.
I am extremely grateful for Dan's sharing of the burden. And I like to think he enjoyed the conversations--they gave him something to do while he chilled to his favorite Pink Floyd album almost loud enough to not hear the phone--hey, I think I know how he survived the calls.
In fact, when the future Mrs. kcrazorback and I were dating, we were at a Christian college with an 11 PM curfew in the dorms. So, she'd frequently call me after 11. Then she'd start talking.
After handset-to-ear fatigue became just too unbearable, I would pass the phone off to my roommate Dan. The two of them would have many long (mostly) one-sided conversations late at night.
I am extremely grateful for Dan's sharing of the burden. And I like to think he enjoyed the conversations--they gave him something to do while he chilled to his favorite Pink Floyd album almost loud enough to not hear the phone--hey, I think I know how he survived the calls.
Monday, March 9, 2009
hoops
Yeah, it's college basketball tournament time. KC is a great place to live during the tournaments. It seems like there's always something going on. The NAIA tournament, for example, plays about 713 games in a weekend in Municipal Auditorium. It's fun.
Kcrazorback, of course, is a hoops fan. He liked to play, too. He wasn't very good, but that's not the point.
We decided to take all of our wedding pictures before the ceremony. Good idea. Of course, the groom is involved in roughly 8% of those photos.
Finding a little extra time and a gymnasium next door, I decided to shoot hoops for a while. The tux made it a little difficult but I persevered. Of course, the photographer hunted me down and took a couple of shots (pictures, not baskets). I'm pretty sure we did not buy the photographic evidence that I was thinking of anything other than my young bride.
Kcrazorback, of course, is a hoops fan. He liked to play, too. He wasn't very good, but that's not the point.
We decided to take all of our wedding pictures before the ceremony. Good idea. Of course, the groom is involved in roughly 8% of those photos.
Finding a little extra time and a gymnasium next door, I decided to shoot hoops for a while. The tux made it a little difficult but I persevered. Of course, the photographer hunted me down and took a couple of shots (pictures, not baskets). I'm pretty sure we did not buy the photographic evidence that I was thinking of anything other than my young bride.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
fish stir fry? nah, how about mr. burger
A couple of months before the wedding, future-wife decided to try to prepare a dinner for me. She shopped for groceries at Food-4-Less. She decided on a fish and vegetable stir fry dinner. She cooked.
It was awful. I mean it was really bad. Even she thought it was bad. It was so bad that we threw it all out and went to Mr. Burger.
If I was going to marry the young lady, it would not be for her cooking. I did. It wasn't. It's been wonderful.
Mrs. kcrazorback is actually a pretty decent cook today. However, it is way down on the list of things she does well. I still wouldn't marry her for her cooking, though. Fortunately, all the other stuff is even better today.
It was awful. I mean it was really bad. Even she thought it was bad. It was so bad that we threw it all out and went to Mr. Burger.
If I was going to marry the young lady, it would not be for her cooking. I did. It wasn't. It's been wonderful.
Mrs. kcrazorback is actually a pretty decent cook today. However, it is way down on the list of things she does well. I still wouldn't marry her for her cooking, though. Fortunately, all the other stuff is even better today.
Monday, March 2, 2009
the counseling must have worked
Disclaimer: I believe all young couples should get premarital counseling--especially if it is consistent with their faith and if it will equip them with the tools they need to survive the difficulties of married life.
That was NOT our experience. Counseling was one of the worst experiences of our lives. Counseling, for us, was an excruciating experience where a university counselor/psychological quack tried to destroy our relationship.
The man started out by trying to attack and destroy one of us while being buddy-buddy with the other. This approach might have worked. However, the guy made a very wrong choice in which of the engaged to attack. You see, my soon-to-be bride had the stronger character. She was capable of withstanding the attack.
This experience made us both angry for a time. It's a big part of the reason I've never been charitably inclined toward my alma mater. I probably won't push my kid to go there and I really want her to have a high-quality Christian education--yes, this happened at a fantastic Christian university.
Ironically, his chief point of argument with me was "You won't make it 20 years." Maybe he was right. But we don't have to make it 20 years--just another two months. I've been with her for 20 years because she's the love of my life and I adore her now more than ever. If we happen to prove one quack wrong along the way, fine. He'll never even know anyway.
If, perhaps, the man had uttered one encouraging word or given us at least one tool with which to develop a marriage relationship it might have been so much more beneficial to all parties involved.
That was NOT our experience. Counseling was one of the worst experiences of our lives. Counseling, for us, was an excruciating experience where a university counselor/psychological quack tried to destroy our relationship.
The man started out by trying to attack and destroy one of us while being buddy-buddy with the other. This approach might have worked. However, the guy made a very wrong choice in which of the engaged to attack. You see, my soon-to-be bride had the stronger character. She was capable of withstanding the attack.
This experience made us both angry for a time. It's a big part of the reason I've never been charitably inclined toward my alma mater. I probably won't push my kid to go there and I really want her to have a high-quality Christian education--yes, this happened at a fantastic Christian university.
Ironically, his chief point of argument with me was "You won't make it 20 years." Maybe he was right. But we don't have to make it 20 years--just another two months. I've been with her for 20 years because she's the love of my life and I adore her now more than ever. If we happen to prove one quack wrong along the way, fine. He'll never even know anyway.
If, perhaps, the man had uttered one encouraging word or given us at least one tool with which to develop a marriage relationship it might have been so much more beneficial to all parties involved.
Sunday, March 1, 2009
facing the music
Mrs. kcrazorback and I are two months shy of our 20th anniversary. So I'm blogging lots of stories related to those 20 years in this space between now and then. Keep reading.
Facing the audience: in a fit of premarital insanity, bride and groom decided to face the audience the whole ceremony. I guess we'd been to enough weddings where you show up, look at the backs of the people you came to see and then go home.
What we learned is they do that for a reason. Or maybe several. Anyway, I have mine.
Never combine these three ingredients: standing facing the audience, uncomfortable shoes and a preacher that will talk for a very long time. This perfect storm occurred at our wedding.
The length of the wedding sermon is worthy of its own blog post and I may get to that, but I'll just say it was way longer than necessary. However, it did accomplish its purpose and we were married by the end.
If we ever repeat our vows in front of an audience, I'll want to see you but I can't face you.
Facing the audience: in a fit of premarital insanity, bride and groom decided to face the audience the whole ceremony. I guess we'd been to enough weddings where you show up, look at the backs of the people you came to see and then go home.
What we learned is they do that for a reason. Or maybe several. Anyway, I have mine.
Never combine these three ingredients: standing facing the audience, uncomfortable shoes and a preacher that will talk for a very long time. This perfect storm occurred at our wedding.
The length of the wedding sermon is worthy of its own blog post and I may get to that, but I'll just say it was way longer than necessary. However, it did accomplish its purpose and we were married by the end.
If we ever repeat our vows in front of an audience, I'll want to see you but I can't face you.
Friday, February 27, 2009
dad and the mav
In an earlier post--enough sources of stress already--I told you a little bit about my dad and the 1976 Ford Maverick he owned.
Before going away to college in 1984, I bought the car from him. My friends knew it as "the Mav." The Mav developed a reputation as a dating machine. I don't know how that happened.
Fast forward to the wedding in 1989. My betrothed drove her Pontiac Grand Am to the wedding. I drove the Mav. During the reception my lame groomsmen and Aunt Gloria decorated BOTH cars--not knowing which one we'd drive away in. Of course, we took the nicer car, the Grand Am.
That left the Mav at Carmichael Community Center covered in shaving cream, just married signs, tin cans tied on--you get the picture. So, the story goes, that my dad started driving across town to find a carwash. I think he got more attention during that one drive by himself than he had en route to his own honeymoon. Thanks dad.
The Mav died in 1990 and we sold it for scrap. If I'd been a little more car-savvy, I probably could have fixed it up. But who knows what it would have cost in the long run so I don't feel too bad about letting it go.
Before going away to college in 1984, I bought the car from him. My friends knew it as "the Mav." The Mav developed a reputation as a dating machine. I don't know how that happened.
Fast forward to the wedding in 1989. My betrothed drove her Pontiac Grand Am to the wedding. I drove the Mav. During the reception my lame groomsmen and Aunt Gloria decorated BOTH cars--not knowing which one we'd drive away in. Of course, we took the nicer car, the Grand Am.
That left the Mav at Carmichael Community Center covered in shaving cream, just married signs, tin cans tied on--you get the picture. So, the story goes, that my dad started driving across town to find a carwash. I think he got more attention during that one drive by himself than he had en route to his own honeymoon. Thanks dad.
The Mav died in 1990 and we sold it for scrap. If I'd been a little more car-savvy, I probably could have fixed it up. But who knows what it would have cost in the long run so I don't feel too bad about letting it go.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
two amazing women
My grandmother was about 75 years old at the time--with another couple of decades yet to go. But at that point, she'd already lived an amazing life. My girlfriend was about 20, but the same thing could be said about having lived an amazing life to that point.
Grandmother had been a math and physics double-major on a basketball scholarship at Arkansas Tech in the early 1930's. Girlfriend had served an internship at the Smithsonian Institution's Museum of Natural History scraping squirrel skulls.
Grandmother had raised five children in post-Great Depression SW Arkansas. Girlfriend had travelled and lived in many parts of the US and Europe already.
The two made a connection when girlfriend drove (alone) the two hours to Arkadelphia to spend a weekend with grandmother. While she was there, she interviewed her for a paper she was writing in one of her communications classes. She wrote a fantastic paper that chronicled part of the life of one amazing woman who had done so much.
I had always been attracted to this woman and from the very beginning knew that she was the one for me. But that weekend was the point at which I knew that she would be my wife. The respect that she showed my grandmother really humbled me.
Eventually, one very amazing woman became another amazing woman's first grandchild-in-law.
I still look for that paper every now and then.
Grandmother had been a math and physics double-major on a basketball scholarship at Arkansas Tech in the early 1930's. Girlfriend had served an internship at the Smithsonian Institution's Museum of Natural History scraping squirrel skulls.
Grandmother had raised five children in post-Great Depression SW Arkansas. Girlfriend had travelled and lived in many parts of the US and Europe already.
The two made a connection when girlfriend drove (alone) the two hours to Arkadelphia to spend a weekend with grandmother. While she was there, she interviewed her for a paper she was writing in one of her communications classes. She wrote a fantastic paper that chronicled part of the life of one amazing woman who had done so much.
I had always been attracted to this woman and from the very beginning knew that she was the one for me. But that weekend was the point at which I knew that she would be my wife. The respect that she showed my grandmother really humbled me.
Eventually, one very amazing woman became another amazing woman's first grandchild-in-law.
I still look for that paper every now and then.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
with that halo he must be an angel
The college baseball season just started which reminds me of my wedding day.
One week before I got married I spent the entire day outside. The day began with the annual Red-White intra-squad scrimmage football game at Razorback Stadium. Being the only football game of any kind in Arkansas from November to August it is usually well-attended. I was there in 1989. Following the football game, most of the spectators walked the two blocks to the baseball stadium for a double-header between Arkansas and SWC rival Texas. I watched all three games from the opening kickoff to the final out. Sitting in the bleachers watching sports for eight hours gave me a really dark tan.
One day before getting married I got a haircut--a short one. Of course the skin under the hair that had been trimmed was lily white giving my head a sort-of halo appearance. As the 20-year old videotape degrades I become even more angelic.
One week before I got married I spent the entire day outside. The day began with the annual Red-White intra-squad scrimmage football game at Razorback Stadium. Being the only football game of any kind in Arkansas from November to August it is usually well-attended. I was there in 1989. Following the football game, most of the spectators walked the two blocks to the baseball stadium for a double-header between Arkansas and SWC rival Texas. I watched all three games from the opening kickoff to the final out. Sitting in the bleachers watching sports for eight hours gave me a really dark tan.
One day before getting married I got a haircut--a short one. Of course the skin under the hair that had been trimmed was lily white giving my head a sort-of halo appearance. As the 20-year old videotape degrades I become even more angelic.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
black gown/white gown
Graduation day was wedding day. At least for the bride it was. You know, the whole black gown in morning-white gown at night deal.
She graduated from college at 10 that morning. We got married at 7 that night. That's crazy. Although, it wasn't really that day that was crazy--but the months of wedding prep and senior-level coursework at the same time leading up to it that was really crazy. Anyway, she's an overachiever and she did great at both. I, on the other hand, dropped a letter grade in my Design of Experiments class.
Between commencement and nuptials there were about 4 hours of free time. Bride and groom spent about half of that time at Hardee's. Brilliant! That's the last place anyone would have ever looked for us. We still don't go to Hardee's. Our families and friends weren't looking for us anyway. They had a wedding to get ready for. Anyway, I think everyone else thought we were both very busy.
We only needed some time with each other. I'll never forget (and always treasure) those stolen moments with my fiancee at a fast food restaurant talking openly and honestly about our future together as a family. In retrospect I realize we'd worked harder preparing for the marriage than for the wedding--advice I'd give to anyone.
Even today in the busy-ness of family life with careers and church obligations and so on, we look for little bits of stolen time together. I love those times and I love her because of them.
She graduated from college at 10 that morning. We got married at 7 that night. That's crazy. Although, it wasn't really that day that was crazy--but the months of wedding prep and senior-level coursework at the same time leading up to it that was really crazy. Anyway, she's an overachiever and she did great at both. I, on the other hand, dropped a letter grade in my Design of Experiments class.
Between commencement and nuptials there were about 4 hours of free time. Bride and groom spent about half of that time at Hardee's. Brilliant! That's the last place anyone would have ever looked for us. We still don't go to Hardee's. Our families and friends weren't looking for us anyway. They had a wedding to get ready for. Anyway, I think everyone else thought we were both very busy.
We only needed some time with each other. I'll never forget (and always treasure) those stolen moments with my fiancee at a fast food restaurant talking openly and honestly about our future together as a family. In retrospect I realize we'd worked harder preparing for the marriage than for the wedding--advice I'd give to anyone.
Even today in the busy-ness of family life with careers and church obligations and so on, we look for little bits of stolen time together. I love those times and I love her because of them.
Monday, February 23, 2009
but she did say a lot
One key to our longevity: talking. We talk. A lot.
We also listen some. Although I don't always engage the discipline, I have learned to listen. Mainly because most of the listening burden has been placed on my shoulders. I'm good, but distractions sometimes creep in--or in this case, slither.
I remember very well the afternoon at Riverside Park just outside our college town of Searcy, Ark. My girlfriend (the future mrs. kcrazorback if you weren't clear--hey, she's the love of my life I'm not going to be talking about anyone else) and I were standing on a paved path a couple of feet apart facing each other and talking. I peripherally noticed the snake that was just approaching her from behind. In an instant I decided the wise thing would be to not look down or step away but just watch what happens. The brown reptile meandered between her feet and then left. I really enjoyed telling her what had just happened after it got about 5 feet away. I still have no idea what she was talking about.
We also listen some. Although I don't always engage the discipline, I have learned to listen. Mainly because most of the listening burden has been placed on my shoulders. I'm good, but distractions sometimes creep in--or in this case, slither.
I remember very well the afternoon at Riverside Park just outside our college town of Searcy, Ark. My girlfriend (the future mrs. kcrazorback if you weren't clear--hey, she's the love of my life I'm not going to be talking about anyone else) and I were standing on a paved path a couple of feet apart facing each other and talking. I peripherally noticed the snake that was just approaching her from behind. In an instant I decided the wise thing would be to not look down or step away but just watch what happens. The brown reptile meandered between her feet and then left. I really enjoyed telling her what had just happened after it got about 5 feet away. I still have no idea what she was talking about.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
yes or no, just answer me already
Mrs. kcrazorback and I are steaming toward our 20th wedding anniversary in a couple of months. So, I plan to post some stories from those 20 years several times between now and then. I'll try to keep it tame.
Engagement: In November of '88, I asked the young lady to marry me. She started laughing hysterically. I'm not completely sure that I ever got an answer from her. I was pretty sure that was what she wanted. But you probably know what it is to have a litte self-doubt at a young age. Anyway, as we started telling people right away you could tell how happy she was.
Of course, a few months later the preacher would ask her if she would marry me. She had no trouble answering him. Tellin' you though: I would have gotten the joke if she'd just laughed at him.
Laughter still fills our lives together. We all laugh frequently.
Does laughter=yes?
Engagement: In November of '88, I asked the young lady to marry me. She started laughing hysterically. I'm not completely sure that I ever got an answer from her. I was pretty sure that was what she wanted. But you probably know what it is to have a litte self-doubt at a young age. Anyway, as we started telling people right away you could tell how happy she was.
Of course, a few months later the preacher would ask her if she would marry me. She had no trouble answering him. Tellin' you though: I would have gotten the joke if she'd just laughed at him.
Laughter still fills our lives together. We all laugh frequently.
Does laughter=yes?
Thursday, February 12, 2009
i didn't know about the new models, but serve me up some pi
One item in the most recent hp solve newsletter, was news of the announcement of three new models at last month's Consumer Electronics show. I didn't know.
But now I know they exist. So, I'll have to get info about these three new hp calculators and get back to you: EasyCalc 100, SmartCalc 300s, OfficeCalc 300. Just based on the newsletter, it looks like I wouldn't mind a SmartCalc 300s for myself.
This edition also has some interesting trivia on the announcement of new models over the years.
The previous edition contained a calculation for the number pi that I had never heard of either. But it's so simple. You take 113355 and split it down the middle, divide the latter by the former so 355/113 and the result is pi accurate to six decimal places. I've been a mathematician for many years and I don't think anyone ever showed me that trick. Cool. Can I have a slice of 355/113, please. It's also possible I knew at one time, but have forgotten. You saw that I said "many years," right?
But now I know they exist. So, I'll have to get info about these three new hp calculators and get back to you: EasyCalc 100, SmartCalc 300s, OfficeCalc 300. Just based on the newsletter, it looks like I wouldn't mind a SmartCalc 300s for myself.
This edition also has some interesting trivia on the announcement of new models over the years.
The previous edition contained a calculation for the number pi that I had never heard of either. But it's so simple. You take 113355 and split it down the middle, divide the latter by the former so 355/113 and the result is pi accurate to six decimal places. I've been a mathematician for many years and I don't think anyone ever showed me that trick. Cool. Can I have a slice of 355/113, please. It's also possible I knew at one time, but have forgotten. You saw that I said "many years," right?
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
life journal
Sometimes, the same old routine suprises you and becomes new and exciting all over again.
I've read through the Bible many times over the years. I've tried several plans or systems to read through the whole thing in a year--even accomplishing the feat once or twice.
I've been prompted to journal before as well. But, until now I had successfully resisted the call.
This year, our church is reading through scripture in a year and journaling scripture using the Life Journal. I never expected it to change me, but it has.
The Bible reading plan is good but really not all that different than others. However, the journal is great. It requires writing out scripture every day. I love it. I read the day's chapters, then write a verse or two and my observation about that scripture, how it applies to my life and a prayer. It has become an enjoyable part of my day that I very much look forward to. It's a spiritual discipline that I didn't anticipate would be so easy.
If you've never tried journaling scripture, give it a try. It might suprise you.
I've read through the Bible many times over the years. I've tried several plans or systems to read through the whole thing in a year--even accomplishing the feat once or twice.
I've been prompted to journal before as well. But, until now I had successfully resisted the call.
This year, our church is reading through scripture in a year and journaling scripture using the Life Journal. I never expected it to change me, but it has.
The Bible reading plan is good but really not all that different than others. However, the journal is great. It requires writing out scripture every day. I love it. I read the day's chapters, then write a verse or two and my observation about that scripture, how it applies to my life and a prayer. It has become an enjoyable part of my day that I very much look forward to. It's a spiritual discipline that I didn't anticipate would be so easy.
If you've never tried journaling scripture, give it a try. It might suprise you.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
president obama and the new car
Of course, our new president's limo has been in the news a lot lately. Now that is one sweet ride. On the other hand, it burns a lot of gas.
Kansas City's 2008 car market was a funny one. When gas prices skyrocketed, it became almost impossible to buy an affordable small car in Kansas City due to the demand. When gas prices went back down at the end of the year, lots of folks bought back their gas guzzling SUVs. What a fickle lot we are.
So with lower prices on economical cars, kcrazorback wife and I started shopping at the end of the year. After considering lots of cars, we began to focus on recent-model used Toyota Matrixes (Matrices?). We actually missed out on a couple as other buyers moved quickly to buy. (I'm the guilty party--I'm a stereotypical slow-moving southerner.)
So, within moments of the presidential swearing-in yesterday, I struck a deal to buy a 2007 Toyota Matrix--not the typical ride for 40 and over statisticians. I hope that stimulus package kicks in soon.
It's red. I mean, it is really red. Toyota calls it radiant red. I picked it up last night. Fortunately, kcrazorback looks good in red. Kcrazorback looks good regardless, but just making the point.
When gas prices go back up (and they will), I plan on saving a lot of money at the pump. Over the long haul, I hope it pays for itself.
Free Ride is playing in my mind. Yeah, I'm cool.
Kansas City's 2008 car market was a funny one. When gas prices skyrocketed, it became almost impossible to buy an affordable small car in Kansas City due to the demand. When gas prices went back down at the end of the year, lots of folks bought back their gas guzzling SUVs. What a fickle lot we are.
So with lower prices on economical cars, kcrazorback wife and I started shopping at the end of the year. After considering lots of cars, we began to focus on recent-model used Toyota Matrixes (Matrices?). We actually missed out on a couple as other buyers moved quickly to buy. (I'm the guilty party--I'm a stereotypical slow-moving southerner.)
So, within moments of the presidential swearing-in yesterday, I struck a deal to buy a 2007 Toyota Matrix--not the typical ride for 40 and over statisticians. I hope that stimulus package kicks in soon.
It's red. I mean, it is really red. Toyota calls it radiant red. I picked it up last night. Fortunately, kcrazorback looks good in red. Kcrazorback looks good regardless, but just making the point.
When gas prices go back up (and they will), I plan on saving a lot of money at the pump. Over the long haul, I hope it pays for itself.
Free Ride is playing in my mind. Yeah, I'm cool.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
a-God
Drove kcrazorback daughter to school Monday morning--first day back after Christmas break. We were running late so I decided to say our school-day prayer in the car on the way.
However, this time, she started praying. She ended her sweet prayer with "A-God." Then she said it's not about men. It's about God.
A-God.
However, this time, she started praying. She ended her sweet prayer with "A-God." Then she said it's not about men. It's about God.
A-God.
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
free calculators
Again, the hp online store has some good deals. If you're buying ink cartridges or toner, get 'em with free shipping and a free calculator--either a QuickCalc or an OfficeCalc 100. Check it out here.
Oh, and, if you really don't want the calculators, just send those to me.
Oh, and, if you really don't want the calculators, just send those to me.
Friday, January 2, 2009
oh boy, oh boy
It wasn't quite Christmas morning. But, my New Year's Eve morning began before 8:00 AM when the FedEx guy rang the doorbell and dropped two boxes at the door. For this hp calculator dude it was like Christmas morning. I tore into the boxes expecting to find a new 35s in one box and a 10s in the other. hp did not disappoint. You see, I really did not miss the big sale I talked about in the previous post. At these prices, I couldn't afford not to buy (right, honey?).
After I get to know my 35s a little better, I'll give you a review of it. What follows is a quick review of my new 10s.
For a pocket scientific, the 10s seems to be everything you'd want with a few little suprises. For the price (I paid $7.99 with free shipping as part of a larger order), it's a very good calculator. Some notes:
* I really like the hard protective case and the dual power (solar and battery) feature. I bought the 10s because I needed one cheap calculator that I could carry in my laptop bag on business trips. I had been using my 33s for this purpose, but replaced the batteries twice last year after business trips. Anyway, I prefer not to travel with my 33s--don't want to lose it... Now, if I can just get used to algebraic entry while working.
* There seems to be some odd and very non-hp placement of buttons. Most annoying is the location of the AC button, which is not on an edge or near the ON button or near the = button. Hunting for it slows me down.
* The lcd contrast on the two-line display does not seem dark enough for me and I don't know how to darken it--standard tricks didn't work. Didn't try replacing the battery yet. I'll do some research and get back to you.
* The biggest of the little suprises: not only does this calculator store data and perform simple linear regressions like many other scientifics, it is capable of 5 other types of regression models: logarithmic, exponential, mathematical power, inverse and quadratic. Wow, that's all on an $8 calculator.
It's not top-of-the-line. But, to use a car phrase, it is best in class. If you can get one for $8, don't hesitate.
After I get to know my 35s a little better, I'll give you a review of it. What follows is a quick review of my new 10s.
For a pocket scientific, the 10s seems to be everything you'd want with a few little suprises. For the price (I paid $7.99 with free shipping as part of a larger order), it's a very good calculator. Some notes:
* I really like the hard protective case and the dual power (solar and battery) feature. I bought the 10s because I needed one cheap calculator that I could carry in my laptop bag on business trips. I had been using my 33s for this purpose, but replaced the batteries twice last year after business trips. Anyway, I prefer not to travel with my 33s--don't want to lose it... Now, if I can just get used to algebraic entry while working.
* There seems to be some odd and very non-hp placement of buttons. Most annoying is the location of the AC button, which is not on an edge or near the ON button or near the = button. Hunting for it slows me down.
* The lcd contrast on the two-line display does not seem dark enough for me and I don't know how to darken it--standard tricks didn't work. Didn't try replacing the battery yet. I'll do some research and get back to you.
* The biggest of the little suprises: not only does this calculator store data and perform simple linear regressions like many other scientifics, it is capable of 5 other types of regression models: logarithmic, exponential, mathematical power, inverse and quadratic. Wow, that's all on an $8 calculator.
It's not top-of-the-line. But, to use a car phrase, it is best in class. If you can get one for $8, don't hesitate.
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